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The Ultimate Bride's Wedding Checklist: Your Month-by-Month Guide

Miranda Mattson
Miranda Mattson
September 18, 20245 min read
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Planning a wedding can be both exciting and overwhelming. With so many details to consider, staying organized is key to ensuring your big day is everything you've dreamed of. Whether you're planning a grand celebration or an intimate gathering, this comprehensive month-by-month wedding checklist will help you stay on track and stress-free.

But don't worry—you don't have to do it all alone. At Wedding Agency San Diego, we're here to help take the pressure off your shoulders and ensure every detail is perfectly planned and executed. Let us guide you through the process, making your wedding planning journey as smooth and enjoyable as possible.

12+ Months Before the Wedding: The Foundation

  • Announce Your Engagement: Share the exciting news with family and friends, and celebrate this joyous occasion.
  • Set a Budget: Discuss and determine your overall wedding budget. Consider contributions from family members, if applicable.
  • Create a Guest List: Draft a preliminary guest list to get an idea of the size of your wedding.
  • Hire a Wedding Planner: This is where we come in! At Wedding Agency San Diego, we specialize in taking your vision and turning it into reality. We’ll help you manage your budget, keep track of deadlines, and handle the logistics so you can focus on enjoying your engagement.
  • Select a Date: Choose a wedding date and check for any potential conflicts.
  • Book Your Venue: Visit potential venues and secure your ceremony and reception locations.

10-12 Months Before the Wedding: Laying the Groundwork

  • Choose Your Wedding Party: Ask your friends and family to be part of your special day.
  • Begin Dress Shopping: Start looking for the perfect wedding dress, and schedule fittings.
  • Hire Key Vendors: Book your photographer, videographer, caterer, and entertainment. With our extensive network of trusted vendors, we’ll ensure you work with the best in the industry.
  • Send Save-the-Dates: Once your venue and date are secured, send out save-the-dates to your guest list.
  • Plan Your Honeymoon: Start researching and booking your honeymoon destination.

8-10 Months Before the Wedding: The Details

  • Select Attire for the Wedding Party: Coordinate with your bridesmaids and groomsmen on their attire.
  • Register for Gifts: Create a wedding registry that reflects your shared tastes and needs.
  • Finalize the Guest List: Review and finalize your guest list, keeping within your budget.
  • Order Invitations: Choose and order your wedding invitations and other stationery.
  • Book Transportation: Arrange transportation for the wedding party and guests if needed. We can help coordinate these details to ensure everyone arrives on time and in style.

6-8 Months Before the Wedding: Bring It All Together

  • Plan the Ceremony: Meet with your officiant to plan the ceremony and discuss any special requests. We’ll be there to guide you through the process, ensuring every moment is meaningful.
  • Book Hair and Makeup: Secure a stylist for your big day and schedule a trial run.
  • Order the Cake: Choose a baker and design your wedding cake.
  • Arrange Accommodation: Reserve hotel blocks for out-of-town guests. Let us handle the logistics, so your guests feel welcome and comfortable.

4-6 Months Before the Wedding: Final Preparations

  • Mail Invitations: Send out your wedding invitations, including RSVP information.
  • Start Premarital Counseling: If desired, begin counseling or classes with your officiant.
  • Plan the Rehearsal Dinner: Finalize details for the rehearsal dinner and book a venue.
  • Order Favors: Choose and order wedding favors for your guests.
  • Confirm Details with Vendors: Touch base with all your vendors to ensure everything is on track. Our team will keep communication flowing smoothly, so nothing falls through the cracks.

2-4 Months Before the Wedding: Finishing Touches

  • Finalize the Menu: Work with your caterer to confirm the menu for your reception. We’ll make sure every dish is perfect and tailored to your tastes.
  • Create a Wedding Day Timeline: Outline the schedule for the day and share it with your wedding party and vendors. With our expertise, your day will run like clockwork.
  • Buy Wedding Bands: Purchase your wedding rings and have them engraved if desired.
  • Prepare Speeches: Write your vows, and ask your best man and maid of honor to prepare their speeches.

1-2 Months Before the Wedding: The Countdown Begins

  • Apply for a Marriage License: Check the requirements in your area and apply for your marriage license.
  • Have the Final Dress Fitting: Ensure your dress fits perfectly and make any last-minute adjustments.
  • Confirm RSVPs: Track RSVPs and follow up with any guests who haven’t responded. We’ll assist in coordinating responses to ensure your final headcount is accurate.
  • Create Seating Charts: Work on your seating plan, considering guest relationships and comfort. We can provide creative solutions to make everyone feel included and comfortable.
  • Pack for the Honeymoon: Start packing for your post-wedding getaway.

2 Weeks Before the Wedding: Almost There!

  • Give the Final Headcount to Vendors: Provide your caterer and venue with the final number of guests.
  • Break in Your Shoes: Wear your wedding shoes around the house to avoid discomfort on the big day.
  • Finalize Payments: Ensure all vendor payments are completed. We’ll handle the details so you can relax.
  • Plan for Tips: Prepare envelopes with tips for your vendors and have someone distribute them on the day.

1 Week Before the Wedding: The Final Stretch

  • Pick Up Your Dress: Collect your wedding dress and store it in a safe, cool place.
  • Relax and Pamper Yourself: Schedule a spa day or simply relax at home to unwind before the big day.
  • Delegate Tasks: Assign wedding day tasks to trusted friends or family members to ensure everything runs smoothly. We’ll work behind the scenes to ensure every detail is flawless.
  • Pack an Emergency Kit: Include essentials like safety pins, band-aids, and makeup for any last-minute fixes.

Wedding Day: Enjoy Every Moment

  • Eat Breakfast: Start your day with a healthy meal to keep your energy up.
  • Stay Hydrated: Drink plenty of water, especially if it’s a hot day.
  • Get Ready: Enjoy the process of getting dressed and having your hair and makeup done.
  • Breathe and Smile: Take a deep breath and soak in every moment of your special day. Our team at Wedding Agency San Diego will ensure everything is taken care of, so you can fully enjoy this unforgettable day.
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